The rumors of Aguilera being a lesbian surfaced again when lesbian contestant Kata Hay kissed coach Christina Aguilera. Even though she has children, it is possible that the singer wants the best of both the worlds and wants to keep her options open.She was married to marketing executive Jordan Bratman earlier and their relationship was going good.

And it’s not that I think 30 is old by any means or that I had some sort of timeline but at that time, 30 just seemed so far away.

I mean, 10 years is a pretty long time; plenty of time to meet a guy, fall in love and get married.

I am at the opposite end of things – I just turned 30, and I have never been married (read that as I am totally and completely single).

When I was 20, I thought that I would be married or at least in a really serious relationship by the age of 30.

ET online reported that the 35 year old singer paired up with Joe Maye who is a young hopeful on the show and sang "I Put a Spell on You" and mesmerised the audience.

"That is one of my favorite songs in the whole wide world to sing.'' Having only just split from Jordan Bratman earlier this week, it's perhaps not so shocking that gossip sites and magazines are grasping at possible reasons it didn't work out between Christina Aguilera and her husband.The most recent development: x17 is reporting - from an anonymous source - that the singer had an open marriage so she could sleep with women, and that she is now dating Samantha Ronson'' is what the article said.The main reason turns out to be her 2-year-old son, Max.“When you’re unhappy in your marriage, your children are the ones who suffer.The rumors start spreading after the singer followed the MTV VMAs account on Twitter earlier this month.